Yesterday, I had plans to see my friend Sasha, and Happy (a guy), and we were going to get together to cook Indian food. Happy was going to teach us. Well...Happy had to reschedule. And I ended up meeting up with Sasha, and Frank (some guy from her church), and we went out to Pho instead. The conversation was OK and we were all having fun, until Sasha started talking about Zonkey's. For those of you who haven't guessed already, or don't know..zonkey's are zebra-donkey mixes. They're cute. Anyhoo...Sash was saying that if she was reincarnated she would like to come back as a zonkey...and then of course Frank said what he'd like to come back as (an owl), and then he asked me what I'd want to be reincarnated as...and off the top of my head I thought of an elephant. I had just watched this really interesting documentary on PBS about all of these different types of elephants...some of them even live in the desert, and go from watering hole to watering hole. And I was just thinking that elephants seem to live long lives, they have good social support, friendships, they're intelligent, they get to play a lot, and they generally don't have to worry too much about predators due to their size...so yeah...that seems like a good life to me. ..So elephant. And then Sasha said something about how "I guess I don't have to mention the similarity in appearance." And I laughed it off..but it really got to me. She kept on it too for a bit. And I was just thinking of how I really hate it when people do things like this. It's rude, and kind of mean. And she's being a bit of a bully but if I said anything to her...I would be the one who looked like a jerk. ..This is also after she took my day at work. She told her mom (my boss) that she was broke...and I'm thinking..we all are honey...your mom just closed the shop for a few weeks so she could take her vacation...and so Thea gave my hours to Sash...without even telling me. I found out when I called to see if she was opening on the 15th like she had told me before she left for vacation. And I was cool about it. I let it go. But it just really pissed me off when Sash KNOWS better. And of course I can't get mad at Sash or Thea. Bla. But I find myself really not liking Sash when she's like this. She has a little princess mode that she goes into..and it just works my nerves. Anyhoo...we're hanging out. And Sash keeps doing this thing where I begin to say something...and then she talks right over me like I wasn't even talking...and then when she's all done she goes.."I'm sorry..were you saying something?" -She did this twice. The third time, she just kept talking and when she was done, she didn't say anything. So I hung out for a bit...and then said "Well...I have to go." I made sure that there was a little bit of time between when that occurred and when I exited because although I was annoyed, I didn't want to seem like it was connected to what she was doing. I have to admit...I have a bit of a mean streak. I was also leaving because I have seen guys like Frank before. He totally liked Sash...she has this fucked up thing that she does. She collects guys that have crushes on her..goes out on dates with them, where they pay for everything...let's them get all attached to her...and then when they can't stand it anymore and have to profess their undying love for her...she goes: "What? Oh no...Oh my gosh...I'm afraid you misunderstood. What? You thought those were dates?? Um ...No offense but I'm really not attracted to you. I could never date you. Sorry." ...I've seen her do it for years...YEARS!!! I think part of it is her vanity...she likes to be the center of attention. And also she likes to get nice things..and be treated nicely...and go to expensive places...without having to pay her own way.She didn't tell me that there was going to be a Frank there tonight. It's in part because she expected me to be her "block"...A role that frankly I don't want to play. So...I left her there...all alone with Franky-poo. I know she didn't want to be left alone with him...and also that he was eager to be alone with her. I guess I did it in part as punishment. I don't think it's very nice how she leads guys on. ..And I'm sorry but she does...I know that's an antiquated phrase...that generally I don't agree with..but with Sash..it's just flat out true. So if she's going to play those games she needs to be prepared for the uncomfortable consequences. And I am not going to shelter her from them at all. I don't think she's in any danger of being *ravaged* by Frank...more like she's going to have to deal with his profession before she gets any free meals out of him. Hehehe. I'm evil.
- Mood:
cranky
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